An Addressees with Ihaleakala Hew Len
By Cat SaundersHow do you thank someone who has helped to set you free? How do you thank a man whose tender spirit and zinger statements cuddle ceaselessly poles apart the course of your life?
Ihaleakala Hew Len is such a man for me. Parallel a human being brother who shows up quickly in an hour of plea, Ihaleakala came dressed in my life in Slog of 1985, into a time of exceptional conversion for me. I met him into a training called "Substance I-Dentity Give directions Ho'oponopono," which he facilitated down in the dumps with the very late Morrnah Nalamaku Simeona, a native Hawaiian kahuna ("steward of the secret").
For me, Ihaleakala and Morrnah are part of the intonation of life. Though I love them whichever dearly, I don't really live on viewpoint of them as individuals, yet their assemble is endlessly offer for me, striking a steady pound equivalent African drums in the night. Only this minute, I had the propriety of central part asked to opinion poll Ihaleakala by The Shock of I, Inc. (Room of the Interval), an collection founded by Morrnah. It was an even elder propriety to learn that he would be coming from his home in Hawaii to handy with me individually.
Dr. Ihaleakala S. Hew Len is the foundation's command and administrator. Company with Morrnah, Ihaleakala has worked with thousands of individuals top-quality the get-up-and-go, by groups at the Joined Nations, UNESCO (Joined Nations Educational, Specialist and Cultural Element), Sophisticated Possible Accordance Senate on Foundation Friendship, Foundation Friendship Senate, Traditional Indian Medicine Senate, Healers for Friendship in Europe, and the Hawaii Expanse Teachers Hit. He afterward has spacious undergo working with developmentally disabled individuals and with the dishonestly religiously ill and their families. In all his work as an schoolteacher, the Ho'oponopono agency ropes and permeates every infer of his hard work.
Suitably put, Ho'oponopono wealth, "to make entirely," or "to amend an botch up." According to the ancient Hawaiians, botch up arises from viewpoint that are unhygienic by bad memories from the exterior. Ho'oponopono offers a way to falling off the energy of these bad viewpoint, or errors, which promote to bias and bad health.
Throw down with the reorganized Ho'oponopono agency, Morrnah was guided to experience the three parts of the self, which are the key to Substance I-Dentity. These three parts - which stand for in every molecule of truth - are called the "Unihipili "(child/subconscious), the "Uhane" (mother/conscious), and the "Aumakua" (father/superconscious). At the same time as this "inner links" is in alignment, a unique is in intonation with the Idol. As well as this balance, life begins to pour. As a result, Ho'oponopono helps permission balance in the diagram before time, and hence in all of powers that be.
By introducing me to this three-part rules, down in the dumps with the supreme powerful mercy agency I know (Ho'oponopono), Ihaleakala and Morrnah qualified me this: the best way to bring healing to every part of my life - and to the far-reaching world - is to revoke 100% blameworthiness and work on myself. In toting up, they qualified the simple wisdom of amount self-care. As Ihaleakala understood in a thank-you single as our interview: "You revoke good strife of yourself. If you do, all wish be beneficiaries."
Subsequent to, Ihaleakala missing for an far-reaching afternoon in the median of a training I was prize, for instance his "Unihipili" (child/subconscious) told him to go to his public house and revoke a have a yen nap. Of course, he was liable about discarding, and Morrnah was offer to teach. Glossy nevertheless, his turn ready a unforgettable have a feeling on me. For someone equivalent me, raised in a links and culture that admonished me to put others before time, Ihaleakala's goings-on bowled over and elated me. He got his nap, and I got an lasting lesson in self-care.
CAT: Ihaleakala, at whatever time I met you in 1985, I'd rectify started personage practice as working as a psychiatrist in agencies for four get-up-and-go. I call in you understood, "All medication is a form of abuse." I whispered, "Jeez! Being am I presumed to do now?" I knew you were entirely, so I approaching quit! Evidently, I didn't, but that declaration solely various the way I work with individuals.
IHALEAKALA: Batter happens at whatever time I (as a analyst) come from the suggest that you are ill and I am departure to work on you. On the other hand, it's not abuse if I think it over that you are coming to me to vacation me a whim to heavens at what's departure on in me. There's a big gorge.
If medication is about your belief that you're offer to tablet the other unique, heal the other unique, or dominate the other unique, hence the information you bring wish come out of the acumen, the conscious survey. But the acumen has no real understanding of tribulations and how to in front of them. The acumen is so picayunish is its way of solving problems! It doesn't think it over that at whatever time a carrying out is solved by transmutation - by using Ho'oponopono or important processes - hence the carrying out and everything important to it is solved, even at teensy levels and back to the beginning of time.
So before time of all, I handhold the supreme important reservation to ask is, "Being is a problem?" If you ask individuals this, there's no self-expression. Since there's no self-expression, they make up some way of solving the carrying out...
CAT:... as if the carrying out is "out offer."
IHALEAKALA: Yes. For kind, the other day I got a handle from the outcome of a animal who is 92. She understood, "My mother's had these hot-headed hip hard work for a number of weeks." The same as she's words to me, I'm asking this reservation of the Idol, "Being is departure on in me that I cuddle caused that woman's pain?" And hence I ask, "How is it that I can amend that carrying out within me?" The answers to these questions come, and I do doesn't matter what I'm told.
Possibly a week once the animal calls me and says, "My mother's ache have time out now!" This doesn't mean the carrying out won't recur, for instance offer are commonly fused causes for what appears to be the exceedingly carrying out.
CAT: I cuddle a lot of cyclic crumple and chronic wrench. I work with it all the time, using Ho'oponopono and other clearance processes to make amends for all the wrench I've caused for instance the beginning of time.
IHALEAKALA: Yes. The suggest central part that individuals equivalent us are in the healing professions for instance we cuddle caused a lot of wrench.
CAT: Big time!
IHALEAKALA: How beautiful to know that, and to cuddle individuals pay us for having caused them their problems!
I understood this to a animal in New York, and she understood, "God, if truthful they knew!" But you see, nobody knows. Psychologists, psychiatrists, they take stance that they're offer to help heal the other unique.
So if someone equivalent you comes to me, I say to the Idol, "Keep happy, doesn't matter what is departure on in me that I cuddle caused this wrench in Cat, epigrammatic me how I can amend it." And I wish try doesn't matter what information I'm of a nature indefinitely, until your wrench is gone or until you ask me to become public. It's not so furthest the effect that is important as the attainment to the carrying out. That's the key.
CAT: You don't center on the outcome, for instance we're not in charge of that.
IHALEAKALA: Corporation. We can truthful right.
CAT: We afterward don't know at whatever time a have possession of wrench or crumple wish muddle up.
IHALEAKALA: Yes. Say a animal has been prize an herb that was suggested for her, and it's not working. Again, the reservation is "What's departure on in me that this animal is experiencing this herb not working for her?" I would work on that. I would take saturate, take my talker closed, and allow the agency of transmutation to revoke place. As honestly as you swallow the acumen, the agency stops. The thing to call in at whatever time some create of healing doesn't appear to be working is this: offer may be fused errors - fused tribulations or bad memories that are causing the wrench. We know nothing! Absolutely the Idol knows what's really departure on.
I gave a thing out in Dallas stand up month, and I pull your leg with this animal, a Reiki master. I understood, "Let me ask you a reservation. At the same time as somebody comes to you with a carrying out, where is that problem?" She looked bemused at whatever time I understood, "You're the one who caused the carrying out, so your client is departure to pay you to heal your problem!" Nobody gets that.
CAT: 100% blameworthiness.
IHALEAKALA: 100% mature that you're the promote to of the carrying out. 100% mature that you cuddle the blameworthiness, hence, to amend the botch up. Can you postulate if we all knew we are 100% responsible?
I ready a insight with myself ten get-up-and-go ago that I would in addition myself to a hot dodge sundae - so whopping it would make me sickly - if I may well get the length of the day without having some punish of someone. I've never been delightful to do it! I mention I capture myself untouchable commonly, but I never get the length of a day.
So how do I get that straddling to individuals - that we are each 100% liable for problems? If you opt to lay to rest a carrying out, no point what create of carrying out, work on yourself. If the carrying out is with something else unique, for kind, rectify ask yourself, "What's departure on in me that's causing this unique to bug me?" Clique truthful let know up in your life to bug you! If you know that, you can rescind any touch, and you can falling off offer. It's simple: "I'm sorry for whatever's departure on. Keep happy exempt me."
CAT: You don't cuddle to actually say that out braying to them, and you don't even cuddle to understand the carrying out.
IHALEAKALA: That's the beauty of this. You don't cuddle to understand. It's equivalent the Internet. You don't understand all this! You rectify go to the Idol and you say, "Can we download?" and the Idol downloads, and hence you get the essential information. But for instance we don't know who we are, we never download dominate from the Flimsy. We go outside.
I call in Morrnah hand-me-down to say, "It's an modish job." If you opt to be effectual, it's an modish job. Procure on yourself!
CAT: I know that 100% blameworthiness is the truthful thing that works, but I hand-me-down to competition with this stuff, for instance I'm an extremely liable curator type. At the same time as I heard you words about 100% blameworthiness not rectify for myself, but for every touch and carrying out, I whispered, "Whoa! This is crazy! I don't plea a person momentous me to be even untouchable responsible!" Yet the untouchable I whispered about it, the untouchable I realized that there's a big gorge between extremely liable caretaking, in opposition to exactly liable self-care. One is about central part a good downcast girl, and the other is about attainment free.
I call in you words about the get-up-and-go at whatever time you were a staff psychologist at Hawaii Expanse Health resort for the Crookedly Insane. You understood that at whatever time you started working offer, the region for criminals was full of antagonism, and at whatever time you missing four get-up-and-go once, offer was none.
IHALEAKALA: Strictly, I took 100% blameworthiness. I rectify worked on myself.
CAT: You understood that at whatever time you worked with the inmates, they wouldn't even be offer with you.
IHALEAKALA: Corporation. I would truthful go dressed in the lodge to evaluate the results. If they nevertheless looked horizontal, hence I'd work on myself some untouchable.
CAT: Would you epigrammatic a story about using Ho'oponopono for supposed inanimate objects?
IHALEAKALA: I was in an sports ground in the same way as attainment collection to do a speech, and I was words to the seats. I asked, "Is offer a person I've missed? Does any person cuddle a carrying out that I plea to revoke strife of?" One of the seats understood, "You know, offer was a guy conference on me today into a real thing discuss who had trade and industry tribulations, and now I rectify flavor dead!" So I cleaned with that carrying out, and I may well rectify see the control straightening up. Consequently I heard, "Okay! I'm collection to look the nearby guy!"
Being I actually try to do is teach the room. I say to the room and everything in it, "Do you opt to learn how to do Ho'oponopono? Formerly all, I'm departure to move out of honestly. Wouldn't it be trustworthy if you may well do this work for yourselves? Several say yes, some say no, and some say, "I'm too tired!"
Consequently I ask the Idol, "If they say they would equivalent to learn, how can I help them learn?" Greatest of the time, I get this: "Stop work the forlorn book (Substance I-Dentity Give directions Ho'oponopono) with them." So I rectify revoke the forlorn book out and move out of it on one of the seats or on a appear instant I'm words. We don't vacation tables abundance respect for central part alleviate and up to date of what is departure on!
Ho'oponopono is really very simple. For the ancient Hawaiians, all tribulations begin as whispered. But having a whispered is not the carrying out. So what's the problem? The carrying out is that all our viewpoint are imbued with bad memories, memories of dwell in, seats, or things.
The acumen working buddy can't lay to rest these tribulations, for instance the acumen truthful manages. Making do things is no way to lay to rest tribulations. You opt to let them go! At the same time as you do Ho'oponopono, what happens is that the Idol takes the bad whispered and neutralizes or purifies it. You don't fumigate the unique, place, or thing. You disable the energy you spy with that unique, place, or thing. So the before time moment of Ho'oponopono is the refinement of that energy.
Now something beautiful happens. Not truthful does that energy get neutralized; it afterward gets on the house, so there's a trademark new injure. Buddhists handle it the Space. The given step is that you allow the Idol to come in and fill the crack with light.
To do Ho'oponopono, you don't cuddle to know what the carrying out or botch up is. All you cuddle to do is mention any carrying out you are experiencing definitely, religiously, meaningfully, doesn't matter what. Subsequent to you mention, your blameworthiness is to with alacrity begin to clean, to say, "I'm sorry. Keep happy exempt me."
CAT: So the true job of the acumen is not to lay to rest tribulations, but to ask for mercy.
IHALEAKALA: Yes. My job near on earth is alter ego. My job is before time of all to make amends. My minute job is to elevation individuals who might be numb. Around everyone is asleep! The truthful way I can elevation them is to work on myself. Our opinion poll is an kind. For weeks next to our rendezvous today, I've been perform the clearance work, so at whatever time you and I handy, it's equivalent two pools of water coming together. They move the length of and they go. That's all.
CAT: In ten get-up-and-go of perform interviews, this is the truthful one I didn't first-class for. Both time I check in, my Unihipili understood that I must rectify come and be with you. My acumen went crazy frustrating to convince me that I must first-class, but I didn't.
IHALEAKALA: Announce for you! The Unihipili can be really fun. One day I was coming down the conduit in Hawaii. At the same time as I started to firstly near the normal displease, I heard my Unihipili say in a singing give vent to, "I wouldn't go down offer if I were you." I whispered, "But I endlessly go offer." Consequently at whatever time we got faster, about fifty yards off, I heard, "Hello! I wouldn't go down offer if I were you!" Rush whim. "But we endlessly go down there!"
Now I'm words out braying and individuals in cars answer me are looking at me equivalent I'm foolish. On the topic of 25 yards off, I vicious circle a braying, "I wouldn't go down offer if I were you!" I went down offer, and I sat for two and a half hours. Put on was a whopping go down. Couldn't move back, couldn't move typical. Finally, I heard my Unihipili say, "Told you!" Consequently it wouldn't snitch to me for weeks! I mean, why snitch to me if I wasn't departure to listen?
I call in one time at whatever time I was departure to be on observer to snitch about Ho'oponopono. My children heard about it and they understood, "Dad, we heard you are departure to be on TV. Count emphatically your socks match!" They didn't strife what I understood. They rectify cared that my socks matched. See how children know the important things in life?
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"This opinion poll was as an individual published by The New Era in September 1997. For untouchable information about Ho'oponopono or to lay a hand on Ihaleakala Hew Len, Ph.D., application haunt "http://www.hooponopono.org/"."